Have you or your spouse been expecting way too much? Or have you been just breaking even? Maybe you’re settling for less than you deserve? We ask ten sharp questions about your union status.
When the honeymoon days are gone and not every day spent with your hubby seems like the ‘perfect day’ anymore, it may be time to re-evaluate your marriage and what the future holds for the both of you. Freedom may be beckoning you intoxicatingly. But, have you considered whether or not your expectations are a bit unrealistic? Have you got the inlays of a successful marriage, but are holding out foolishly for ‘perfection?’
But, then again, what exactly is a marriage that’s ‘good enough’? After interviewing many experts, we’ve uncovered the top 10 questions that you should ask yourself in order to clarify if your relationship, in spite of being a tad bit imperfect, is really worth another good go:
1. Could you be putting TOO MUCH emphasis on your partner’s negatives?
Everyone’s got their good and bad points. For the next 3 months, try marking your bad and good days in the relationship on the calendar. You might just get a reality check.